If you'll step into reigning instead of complaining, you'll begin to walk in the rest and the peace of God.
There is a place in God where offense will not move you, a place where you will trust in His ability to lead you and get you where you need to be no matter what storm you're facing.
Its not “know-how” on your part so much as it is just spending time with Jesus and pressing through that will get you to the other side.
You may have grown up in “the crazy”, but God will carry your through!
Blessed is the man whose strength is in You, …Passing through the Valley of Weeping, they make it a place of springs; the early rain also fills the pools with blessings. They go from strength to strength [increasing in victorious power]… Psalms 84:5-7 (AMP)